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I’ve just returned from Mexico, still thrumming with the warm, gentle ocean energy that rocked my nervous system into a new level of coherence.
I’m coming to you from the tender alchemy of a new identity, still raw and not yet fully formed.
I’ve been shedding a major pattern in my life: overcompensating, overperforming, overdoing. One of the most powerful principles from my training in trauma resolution training is this:
We do not heal by reliving pain. We heal by restoring pleasure where it was interrupted. As we move through the final stretch of the Year of the Wood Snake, many of us are feeling it: old patterns surfacing, structures wobbling, roles and relationships no longer able to stay ambiguous.
This is the part of the cycle where the snake shakes its tail — not to create chaos for its own sake, but to shed what can’t come forward. What I’m seeing, again and again, is this: Wherever you are today, however you are today, whoever you're with (or not with): I'm sending a wish for the just-right-size sense of being at peace within yourself within this life, even amidst the changes afoot. If you're curious to watch a recent podcast interview I did, check out my conversation with Earl James on the "Deal to Heal" podcast, on the theme "When Pain Shapes Identity--And How to Heal." Popping in today to express my gratitude to each of you who have followed my journey and the development of my work over this past year. I am in awe of how amazing life can become when we really do say "yes" to the journey of uncovering our authentic selves and letting them lead our lives. Here's an exclusive, short clip (58 seconds) of me sharing a proud moment with my posse (crysalis) within the Sanctuary, yesterday: I'm emerging for a moment from the pregnant pause to share my delight with you...about this stirring current gently forming in the space between 2025 and 2026.
As the dark season gathers and the natural world turns inward, I'm feeling the call to do the same. For the rest of this year, I'll be stepping back from social media and external marketing to turn my full attention toward the deep alchemy already underway inside the Sanctuary.
Some of us feel it—the quiet stirrings that life can be deeper, more luminous, more whole. This season of thin veils and growing darkness invites deeper listening for those seed dreams that wait on the mysterious edges of our lives.
As the light shifts, the air cools, and the days draw inward here in Oregon, I’ve been listening closely to what the body teaches about how to find the Goldilocks zone in letting go of the extraneous fluff while keeping the flame burning for the gritty work of showing up for the projects that resonate with the blueprint of the soul's ambition.
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Elizabeth Stauder
Trauma Safe™ Somatic Post-Trauma-Growth Coach |